I’m Running a Little Late
People relate to time in different ways. People who have a preference for Sensing (S), tend to be more precise and typically are more punctual than Intuitives (N). This difference can be a big source of contention when it is not understood. Often times, Sensors (S) will be early to meetings and might impatiently tap their foot waiting for the Intuitives (N) to arrive.
Intuitives (N) tend to be broad-stroke people and also underestimate the amount of time a task may require. Both of these components cause them to struggle with punctuality more so than a Sensor (S).
If you believe this is causing a problem at work or at home, talk to the other person about your own personality preference and their preference. Often times, when you can verbalize the issue, you can jointly work on a solution or agreement that can satisfy both parties. Perhaps it’s sending a text if you will be more than 2 minutes late to an agreed start time?
Or perhaps you need to set up meetings at a different time of day? If you keep your frustration in your head, there is nothing can be done. Reach out and have a conversation. Knowing about your personality type could save your relationships.